Who doesn’t know this feeling?
I love it when my partner visibly and audibly enjoys an intimate encounter. It turns me on to witness someone melting into ecstasy right in front of my eyes. But what exactly arouses me so much about it? Is it the validation of being a “good lover” – or are my mirror neurons reacting to the other person’s sensual experience?
It’s probably a mix of both.
In fact, research shows: when we watch someone enjoy themselves – whether it’s through gentle touch, sighs, or deep relaxation – our brain can share in that pleasure. Mirror neurons allow us to connect emotionally and physically with the other person’s experience.
It’s a beautiful thing – no doubt.
But it leads me to an honest question, one I’d like to pass on to you:
How much do I depend on the other person’s pleasure to feel fulfilled myself?
And: Do I allow myself to clearly express my own desires – especially when it comes to the kind of touch that sends me into ecstasy?