The men who contact me are of all different ages and come in all shapes and sizes. And that’s a good thing.
Sometimes I’m asked whether I’d like to see a photo of someone before we meet. I usually say no, often to the surprise of the men asking. Because for me, it’s not important whether someone fits conventional standards of beauty.
What matters much more to me is how someone interacts with me. Is he respectful? Can he laugh at himself? Is he curious and open-minded? I genuinely find humor and a certain zest for life very attractive.
For me, attraction isn’t just about what I see anyway. Someone who might not consider himself particularly attractive can suddenly become very appealing simply through his personality and the way he carries himself.
But what about physical attraction?
After all, an escort date isn’t just about having a nice conversation. Physical closeness and intimacy are an important part of the experience. So do I need to find a man physically attractive in order to enjoy that closeness?
For me, the answer is no — at least not in the way attraction is usually understood.
I don’t need a particular body type, age, or appearance to feel comfortable with physical intimacy. What matters much more to me is how the encounter feels. When someone treats me with care, respects my boundaries, and we feel comfortable with each other, a completely different kind of closeness can develop.