In the first part, I wrote about what a first meeting with me can look like and why nothing has to happen that you’re not ready for.
But what happens if we like each other, you feel comfortable, and getting to know each other slowly develops into something more intimate?
Men with little or no sexual experience often spend a lot of time wondering what might be expected of them.
The truth is, I don’t expect anything from you. I’m happy to take the lead during our time together and give you different options for what we could do. You decide what you would like to explore and what you would rather not.
I think it’s important to take things slowly and involve the whole body. For me, the focus isn’t on penetration. Instead, we can start by exploring different kinds of touch and noticing what feels good to you.
So you don’t need to know what you want beforehand. That can be exactly what our time together is about: discovering what feels good and exciting to you in that particular moment. And often, the best way to find out is simply by trying different things. Maybe you’ll enjoy something you never expected to like. Or maybe you’ll try something else and realize it’s just not for you. Both are completely fine. Ultimately, you decide what you would like to explore and how far you want to go.
So you don’t need to come to our meeting with a detailed plan.
Bring your curiosity. Be open to communicating.